
Resources and Links
General
General Resources
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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
​Suicide Prevention Lifeline
Call or Text 988
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Visit www.changingmindsnow.org to learn about the 5 everyday gestures we can use to reverse the damaging effects of childhood trauma. ​​
For Couples
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Check out the Gottman Institute's blog on Love and Relationships.
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Use Dr. Gary Chapman's assessment to determine you and your partner's love language by visiting here!
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ARTICLE: 18 Communication Tips for Couples
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VIDEO: Listen to what Dr. John Gottman views as "The Magic Relationship Ratio"
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VIDEO: Dr. John Gottman - Four Negative Patterns That Predict Divorce (Part 1) (4:19)
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VIDEO: Dr. John Gottman - Four Negative Patterns That Predict Divorce (Part 2) (2:17)
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VIDEO: Larry Bilotta - Signs Your Marriage Is Over: The 6 Stages of Marriage (10:02)​
For Parents
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Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (CHADD)
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VIDEO: Watch this video to understand how putting a child in the middle of a divorce can negatively them. Voice of the Child of Divorce (2:37)
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ARTICLE: Clear Evidence: Spanking Harms Kids
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ARTICLE: 9 Things to do Instead of Spanking
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ARTICLES: Liana Lowenstein - Articles for Parents
For LGBTQ+ Folks
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Centerlink - The community of LGBT centers
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GLAAD - Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation
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GLSEN - Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education network
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IGLYO - International Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer Youth and Student Organization
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TYFA - Trans Youth Family Allies
Book Lists
Couples
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Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - and Keep - Love
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Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
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Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
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The Relationship Cure
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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
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What Makes Love Last?
Parents
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Brainstorm: The Power and Purpose of the Teenage Brain
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Good Enough Parenting: An In-Depth Perspective on Meeting Core Emotional Needs and Avoiding Exasperation
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How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk
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The Baby Book, Revised Edition: Everything You Need to Know About Your Baby from Birth to Age Two (Sears Parenting Library)
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The Connected Child: Bring Hope and Healing to Your Adoptive Family
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The Hurried Child, 25th anniversary edition
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The Power of Play: Learning What Comes Naturally
LGBTQ+
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As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised as A Girl
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Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women, and the Rest of Us
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The Gender Quest Workbook: A Guide for Teens and Young Adults Exploring Gender Identity
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The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality
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The Transgender Workbook:: Your Journey to Womanhood
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You and Your Gender Identity: A Guide to Discovery
Love and Sexuality
Sexuality Education For Young People
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A Better Way to Teach Kids About Sex
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Amazing You!: Getting Smart About Your Private Parts
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Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hookups, Love, Porn, Consent, and Navigating the New Masculinity
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Celebrate Your Body (and Its Changes, Too!): The Ultimate Puberty Book for Girls
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Consent: The New Rules of Sex Education: Every Teen's Guide to Healthy Sexual Relationships
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Everything You Never Wanted Your Kids to Know About Sex (But Were Afraid They'd Ask): The Secrets to Surviving Your Child's Sexual Development from Birth to the Teens
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Girls & Sex: Navigating the Complicated New Landscape
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Good Pictures Bad Pictures: Porn-Proofing Today's Young Kids
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Let's Talk About Body Boundaries, Consent and Respect: Teach children about body ownership, respect, feelings, choices and recognizing bullying behaviors
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Lets Talk About Where Babies Come From
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Sex is a Funny Word: A Book about Bodies, Feelings, and YOU
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What Makes a Baby
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What's in There?: All About Before You Were Born (Let's Talk about You and Me)
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Who Has What?: All About Girls' Bodies and Boys' Bodies (Let's Talk about You and Me)
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30 Days of Sex Talks for Ages 3-7: Empowering Your Child with Knowledge of Sexual Intimacy
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100 Questions You'd Never Ask Your Parents
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Relationships and Sexuality
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Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters--And How to Get It
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Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life
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Sheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage
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This Is Your Brain on Sex: The Science Behind the Search for Love
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The Ethical Slut, Third Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love
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The Man’s Guide to Women: Scientifically proven secrets from the “Love Lab” about what women really want.
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The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory: Everything You Need to Know About Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Alternative Love
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Sexual Practices
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BDSM 101
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On Blossoming: Frank and Practical Advice on Our Bodies, Sexual Health, Sensuality, Pleasure, Orgasm, and More
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Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving
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SM 101: A Realistic Introduction
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Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge
Children and Adolescents
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A Mother for Choco (Paperstar)
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A Tribe Apart: A Journey into the Heart of American Adolescence
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Alerting Kids to the Danger of Abuse and Neglect (Alerting Kids to the Danger Zones)
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Alphabreaths: The ABCs of Mindful Breathing
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Baby Owl Lost Her Whoo
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Breathe
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Do You Have a Secret? (Let's Talk About It!)
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Doggie Doesn't Know No
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Everyone Poops (My Body Science Series)
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Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr.: A Simple Plan to Protect Young Minds
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Goodbye Mousie
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Happy Birth Day!​
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Hurt 2.0 (Youth, Family, and Culture)
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I Am NOT Going to School Today!
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I'm a Big Brother
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It's Tough to Be Gentle: A Dragon's Tale
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Let's Talk
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Listening to My Body: A guide to helping kids understand the connection between their sensations (what the heck are those?) and feelings so that they can get better at figuring out what they need.
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Maybe Days: A Book for Children in Foster Care
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My Body Is Private (Albert Whitman Prairie Books (Paperback))
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My Dad Loves Me, My Dad Has a Disease: A Child's View: Living with Addiction
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Nathan Meets His Monsters
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Princess Potty
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Prozac Nation: Young and Depressed in America
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Teen Coloring Book: Inspirational Quotes: Positive Teenage Inspiration for Boys, Girls, Teens, Tweens, Older Kids, Adults, Cute Gift Idea with ... Relief & Relaxation, Anti Stress Designs
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The Elephant With Small Ears
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The Penguin and the Fine-Looking Fish
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The Redo Roo
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What's So Yummy?: All About Eating Well and Feeling Good (Let's Talk about You and Me)
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When a Family is in Trouble: Children Can Cope with Grief from Drug and Alcohol Addiction​
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When A Friend Dies
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When Lions Roar
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Where Is My Mommy?: A Book about Children's Fears
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Who's In My Family?: All About Our Families (Let's Talk about You and Me)
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You Weren't with Me
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You're Perfect the Way You Are!
Special Topics
Autism Spectrum Disorder
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Everyday Games for Sensory Processing Disorder: 100 Playful Activities to Empower Children with Sensory Differences
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Kids in the Syndrome Mix of ADHD, LD, Autism Spectrum, Tourette's, Anxiety, and More!: The one stop guide for parents, teachers, and other professionals
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Son Rise: The Miracle Continues
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The Autistic Brain: Helping Different Kinds of Minds Succeed
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The Journal of Best Practices: A Memoir of Marriage, Asperger Syndrome, and One Man's Quest to Be a Better Husband
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Trauma and Resilience
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Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome: America's Legacy of Enduring Injury and Healing
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The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
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Trauma and Resilience in the Lives of Contemporary Native Americans
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Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors
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Grief and Loss
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Tear Soup: A Recipe for Healing After Loss
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Memory and Cognition
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Dancing with Elephants: Mindfulness Training For Those Living With Dementia, Chronic Illness or an Aging Brain (How to Die Smiling Series) (Volume 1)
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Learning to Speak Alzheimer's: A Groundbreaking Approach for Everyone Dealing with the Disease